Embracing Service and Letting Go of the Past

Navigating Triggers Towards Personal Growth - By Yessica Saez

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Each day we are given the gift of life is an opportunity to extend our reach beyond ourselves, and to find new ways of connecting with others that don't revolve around our own needs and desires. In the past, I sought attention and validation, yearning to be seen and recognized. However, I was unaware that the peace and focus I craved already existed within me.

I had already emerged from the darkness I had dreaded, but uncertainty clouded my vision, obscuring the path ahead. In that state of uncertainty, we stumble and struggle, groping through the darkness, forgetting that there is always a guiding light illuminating the way.

The shadow of our past lingers, a reminder of where we've been, yet clinging to it keeps us trapped in its grip. We attempt to recapture what we've lost, reliving past mistakes and perpetuating cycles of pain.

But the past is gone, a chapter closed, and we must release our grasp on it. Our past is not a tangible entity, but a collection of memories and experiences that serve as lessons for the present.

Triggers, those stimuli that evoke intense emotional responses, can be people, places, objects, or even situations. I am starting to believe that they exist for a purpose, to nudge us towards self-awareness and growth.

As we become more mindful of our triggers, we can learn to navigate them with greater understanding and resilience. Our responses become more measured, less reactive, allowing us to navigate challenging situations with grace and wisdom.

By embracing service and letting go of the past, we embark on a journey of personal growth and transformation. We discover that true fulfillment lies not in seeking validation or control, but in extending compassion, offering support, and connecting with others on a deeper level.

So, let us release the shackles of the past, embrace the present moment, and step into the light that guides us towards a future filled with purpose, connection, and unwavering strength.